My go-to recipe is pretty simple.
A stick of butter and 4 oz of AP flour make the white roux.
I agree. You either need to use real cheese and make a cheese sauce using a light roux, OR used some processed cheese. My goto recipe is from Ina Garten, which you can find online. Hadn't heard of melting salts but looks interesting.
I picked up some melting salts a few days ago and made nacho cheese sauce with some sharp cheddar I had just smoked this weekend - and it just puts the supermarket stuff to shame. The whole family was impressed with how smooth it was, and of course the flavor was terrific. I think it would work great for mac and cheese and will try it this weekend. If you don't mind adding a few chemicals that you can't pronounce, give it a try.