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Trooper

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I've been a little quiet lately....
« on: December 02, 2017, 03:56:39 PM »

I’ve always considered the members here to be “family” and so I thought I’d share a few things with you.
As some have noticed, I haven’t been real active lately on this forum in making comments or assisting with advice.
The Merediths know. ZCZ knows. That’s about it.

About mid September, I had a typical examination with a Urologist here in town. He said “Hmmm, you have a nodule with your prostate gland. We should do a biopsy on that just to be on the safe side. Don’t be too concerned at this time, though. This is not a time to worry. I’ll let you know when it’s time to worry. Your PSA numbers are well within range, so that’s good. But let’s do the biopsy and see.”

We scheduled the biopsy (12 of them) and returned back to the Urologist following the lab work. He came into the room and said “You have cancer, and it looks pretty aggressive. We need to do something about this or it’ll kill you.” Five of the twelve biopsy removals came back malignant. For those of you familiar with the Gleason Scale, I came out a 4+4. The Urologist said that surgery was my only option and he could do it with the Robot near the end of November. That looked like a LONG time to wait for surgery.

So I’m off to Grand Rapids and meeting with another Urologist and his analysis is the same. You need surgery soon. My wife and I felt very comfortable with the setup at St. Mary’s in Grand Rapids and we get on the calendar for surgery November 12th.  Watching the days click on by.

Meanwhile, my wife is getting some testing done for her as well. She began seeing a Hematologist for her tiredness and low iron. The Hematologist took her down the road with a series of tests. He kept feeling that she was losing blood somewhere internally and began with a colonoscopy. Negative. An upper GI.Negative. Iron infusion to see if that helped. Scheduled her for a CAT Scan and we were ready for the results. He came into the room and said “You need to see a Urologist ASAP. You have a very large mass with your right kidney.” Although we don’t have any pathology study, he said I’m sure it is cancer”

Bingo. Back to Grand Rapids to schedule appointment for her with same Urologist in Grand Rapids that I am scheduled with. His office is across the street from my hospital and following my surgery on the 12th of November, she meets with him to look at her CAT Scan images and gets scheduled for surgery December 5th. Never a dull moment around here.

I come out of surgery and learn that the Urologist was faced with more cancer than he thought he would see. However, he feels that he got it all and time will tell on that issue.

This is a time to make this point.  GUYS. GET TESTED REGULARLY.  MAN UP!  Tell the doc to put the gloves on and check close. My case was very silent and the results and the progression of the cancer was surprising. Testing is one of the most important things that you can have done!!
Nothing beats early diagnosis!

So I’m healing away. And getting ready to switch roles in caring for the little lady who has her turn with Dr. Paul very soon now.
Thanks for listening.

We are in is His hands and our faith is strong.

Shalom
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #1 on: December 02, 2017, 04:13:56 PM »

Hard to even know what to say, no much harder than that.
I am 57, never been a Dr. guy, quite the contrary is my wife who is very, very good with all that someone at her age should pay close attention to.
I have put off for 7 years what everyone tells me is stupid to put off.
This will sound ridiculous but it is my fear of news like this, no that sounds worse than ridiculous, it is stupid.
You have just validated that.
Nothing but prayers and well wishes from our family.
One more very important thing, your very unfortunate situation has moved me more than you know, as you said, "get tested regularly". You have moved me into action.
Prayers Buddy.

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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #2 on: December 02, 2017, 04:15:23 PM »

You are Loved!  And Prayed for!
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #3 on: December 02, 2017, 04:17:19 PM »

All the best to both you and your wife
We will all be thinking of you both
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #4 on: December 02, 2017, 04:28:43 PM »

Yes, please get tested.  I have to do a colonoscopy every 3 years for polyps. (don't hurt one bit, and you get flowers after it.  No kiss. ???)  My PSA ain't the best. I have had the biopsy on my prostrate 4 years ago, you don't want to know where the probe went to get to it.  It hurt.  I peed blood for a few days.  Came back negative.  Next year she wants to do it again.  I WILL get the test done though. Ouch.  If she finds it early, great, if nothing there, great.

Things can be done to fix you before you get really bad.

At 50 I was told by my General Practitioner.  "It ain't gonna get better, do the tests when required."

Better than the old days.  "Doc, I don't feel good."  "Doc says you got the internal fever.  And please pay with a chicken or a bag of flour.  The undertaker is outta town right now."
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #5 on: December 02, 2017, 04:46:01 PM »

Wow Trooper,  can't think of the right words to say.   Double shock.   You  have each other and good faith will see you through.   Best wishes on your journey to you and your wife.  Cancer is such an insidious disease.   I'm going in for a biopsy when it gets scheduled also.
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #6 on: December 02, 2017, 04:49:43 PM »

A difficult read, Trooper.

And their prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make them well...  The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and wonderful results.
          James 5:15-16

Good and gracious Heavenly Father, thank you for hearing this prayer and holding Trooper and his wife in your loving care as they face their illnesses.  Watch over them and help them find the strength and discipline to persevere through their treatments and recoveries.  Please guide the physicians as they care for them; guide the Doctors’ minds and hands and inspire them that they may help Trooper and his wife regain their health.
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #7 on: December 02, 2017, 05:10:41 PM »

Wow Trooper, my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Missed seeing you guys the last couple years, looking forward to Royal 2018

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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #8 on: December 02, 2017, 05:24:30 PM »

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #9 on: December 02, 2017, 05:38:17 PM »

Best of luck to you and your wife.
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #10 on: December 02, 2017, 06:23:48 PM »

You and Bonnie are in my prayers daily.  You are truly a "trooper" so I know this is just a speed bump and then smooth travels!
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #11 on: December 02, 2017, 06:37:12 PM »

Sad news/good news..I missed you and look forward to your involvement with the site when things get better..Thank you for posting..God Bless.
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #12 on: December 02, 2017, 07:22:16 PM »

Thoughts and prayers!
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #13 on: December 02, 2017, 09:51:17 PM »

A difficult read, Trooper.

And their prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make them well...  The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and wonderful results.
          James 5:15-16

Good and gracious Heavenly Father, thank you for hearing this prayer and holding Trooper and his wife in your loving care as they face their illnesses.  Watch over them and help them find the strength and discipline to persevere through their treatments and recoveries.  Please guide the physicians as they care for them; guide the Doctors’ minds and hands and inspire them that they may help Trooper and his wife regain their health.

I stand in agreement with Paul, and others. Also know many will be on the wall for you, the Mrs, the doctors, nurses. (Matt 6:6) Peace and Grace to you guys. May you both be even more aware of Gods Presence and Experience the Glory of His Goodness.
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Re: I've been a little quiet lately....
« Reply #14 on: December 02, 2017, 09:55:24 PM »

our thoughts and prayers are with y'all!!
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