Cant help with BBQ but 2 of the best Chicken Fried Steaks I have ever had...Been 14 years and 5 years respectively, so things can change, but if they are the same...2 of my top 3 of all time.
#1 Calico County Restaurant, 2410 Paramount Blvd, Amarillo, TX 79109 about 1/4 mile off I-40. About 40 miles east of OKC...#3 Delta Cafe in Shawnee, OK, right off I-40.
Rudy's Country Store & Bar-B-Que 2321 Carlisle Blvd NE, Albuquerque, NM 87110 again, about 5 years ago and at that time, not sure why we would have chosen BBQ...I think very tired and right next to motel I think...I could eat it, and for me and BBQ, that is almost like saying it was 5 Star! Sausage real good!
If you stop at any of them, I sure hope you will take some pictures and tell me what you think! At these or any of the places you eat at!