This is addressed to the site, not one individual!
Again, finding out what you know now, disturbing or not, the site may not be for everyone! Some may find that harsh...I don't care. I am not trying to drive folks off, but I look at it just like you are in my house. If I ask you to do or behave in a certain way in my home I expect it done. If you cant' abide by that, for what ever reason...I would understand completely, but I would also show you to the door. It is that simple for me. This is a private site, it is my site, you don't pay for it...and I expect when I say something it is followed, whether you like it or agree with it or not. I like to think I am pretty open and try and listen to folks needs, and yes, I may not be consistent. So you now know I am not consistent...see above!
I have not even hindered you from asking the question you want, I have just asked you to do it privately. If you don't like that, see above, or start your own site!
If this site closed tomorrow, I am not going to lose any sleep over it! I simply have way to much going on in my life for it to be that earth shattering!