Getting a group together and pre-ordering would be the way for me to go!
at risk of being redundant yes, this is the way to go! I'm not sure why people making what amounts to a pilgrimage don't do this. I really think it's a lack of knowledge of the option to order in bulk or pre-order.
Pecan Lodge in Dallas Texas (my personal favorite). The Trough $79 (feeds 4-5) 1 beef rib, 1 lb pork ribs, 1lb brisket, 1/2 lb pulled pork, 3 sausage links. Now last time I was there they had sides in that too. But still for 4-5 people it's under $100. Not bad at all in my book, and less than 5 minute line while singles are waiting an hour.